A series of questionable decisions
Met at a year-end function. Standard professional conduct was briefly abandoned.
— first move: disputed
— persistence noted
One of us attempted to ghost the other.
The other did not allow this.
— timeline unclear
Things became… official.
Also, he had already more or less moved in.
— not ideal
Moved in properly.
All his belongings were immediately stolen.
— independent supervisor appointed
Adopted a cat.
First real sign of commitment.
— aka moved in with her dad
Relocated to Somerset West.
Started saving for a house.
— momentum increasing
Adopted a dog.
Confidence growing.
— discipline remains theoretical
Bought a house.
Immediately adopted another dog (Phoebe).
— outcome favourable
Proposal happened.
No ghosting this time.
— attendance encouraged
Planning a wedding.
Inviting you.







































